16 thoughts on “Giving a speech?”

  1. Ann, it isn’t really connected to this article under discussion – but the Freudian view of female sexuality was that vaginal orgasms were experienced my psychologically mature females – where as clitoral orgasms were seen as a product of immature psychological development.
    It seems like a really odd view for someone who does work in the sexuality field.

  2. I trust that you are asking about psychological maturity.
    Michael,
    Ok, very funny! I cannot stop smiling ๐Ÿ™‚ Yes, I am asking about the phychological maturity and how it relates to the other issue that I do know about!
    Patrick,
    What is Freud’s idea about this and how do the two relate to each other or do they?

  3. Ann: I trust that you are asking about psychological maturity. ๐Ÿ™‚

  4. not to mention he is a supporter of Freudโ€™s ideas about female orgasm and psychological maturity.

    Patrick,
    I’m not familiar with this – what is it?

  5. โ€œBut Honey, Iโ€™ve got a sermon to preach tomorrowโ€ฆโ€
    Byron,
    Funny! ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. I have often been told that I am a pretty good public speaker.

    Michael,
    That you definitely are! ๐Ÿ˜‰ ๐Ÿ™‚

  7. I did a little reading on this study and others by Stuart Brody. His main contention is that only PIV sex is correlated with positive psychological and physiological benefits (as opposed to other sexual forms – oral, masturbation, anal etc). But he doesn’t separate out heterosexual from homosexual couples in his studies – or at least I could not see that he did. I think it is a far assumption – to claim these are heterosexual couples he is studying.
    He does seem to have an odd obsession with PIV sex, not to mention he is a supporter of Freud’s ideas about female orgasm and psychological maturity.

  8. I’m a bit dubious. The story says “heterosexual” at least twice but as far as I can see, it wasn’t the gender of the opposite partner but whether the sex was “penetrative”. I’m certain that I’m shocking no one’s sensibilities to remind us that homosexual sex is aslo penetrative.
    I see no indication that any portion of the sample was not heterosexual. if this is correct, to claim that heterosexual intercourse is preferable – on a stress basis – to homosexual intercoure is preposterous.

  9. Byron – When you revise your book, How to Preach Like You Mean It: The Art Science of Sincerity you should include that research and that fool proof line…

  10. I have often been told that I am a pretty good public speaker. ๐Ÿ™‚

  11. However, only penetrative intercourse did the trick – other forms of sex had no impact on stress levels at all.

    Ok, without getting creepy let me just completely agree with this. My wife and I noticed this almost immediately when we began having sex. I’m not saying that other things don’t feel physically good, but on an emotional/bonding/relaxation level regular sex is best by far. Why this is true I have no idea. But being a student of natural selection I guess it’s to be expected.

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