Her descriptions of some of the things done in the name of sexual reorientation make me cringe. I continue to believe those who support a patient’s right to pursue sexual reorientation should be more zealous to root out such practices. I appreciate Pam’s decision to share and encourage others to do so here in response.
I think the entire post is worth reading but here is one excerpt:
The therapist, who was always in stocking feet, would often rub his foot on Tdubâ€™s [her nickname for her ex-husband] leg (This occurred in couples session; I witnessed this.) I found this a bit awkward and, assuming it went on in his individual sessions, I asked Tdub about it. He admitted that it made him feel awkward at first but that heâ€™d gotten used to it and it was just a part of the therapistâ€™s â€œwayâ€. He later went on to mention that the therapist sort of played the role of a father figure and was teaching them lessons about safe and affirming male touch.
Note to the movement: The whole therapist-as-a-father-figure thing has got to go, and the sooner the better.